How to make Good Decision comes Great?

I don't know why we always want to achieve big success? Why can't we be happy with what we have? 

We all want to become the best person but why we don't take any steps to achieve that? Why we stop early without even trying?

The thing I think the reason is we are Lazy. Yeah, let's do not fool ourselves & be as honest as possible.

We are fully energetic & active in Thinking what we want. But we are Procrastinative & Lazy in doing what we need to do to get that wants.

Then again a question arises why are we lazy?

Answer is in the question itself. Just ask yourself "why I am Lazy?" And see what haapens. Observe your thoughts then write down your reason for being lazy.

For example, you may say you get distracted by Social media & Notifications. But then again observe that You are being distracted by Social media not social media distracts you. The real reason is you want to be distracted because your mind tricks you to be in the comfort & a bit release of dopamine. 

So from now think & be clear that every single action you take even small to small action are you own decision now one is making that decision for yourself. You're responsible for everything you do to your life in both positive & negative way. No one is taking decisions for yourself. Even if they make decisions for your life, it's your decision to allow them to make decisions for yourself. That's why take charge of every thing you do & every thing you could do but some how couldn't.

Decisions are the toughest thing to make in this world. How to make goos decisions?

In simple two steps you will be able to make quite good decision.

1st. Ask Why

2nd. Follow your Intuition

Then again ask yourself why. It's a loop of Why + Intuition.

In this way you'll make decisions based on your thoughts in your brain (Why) & what your heart wants you to do (Intuition). 

Don't get tricked by the game of your big powerful brain, it will always try to make you think that what it's think it's coming from the bottom of your heart. That's not always true. You should be very clear about what your heart says & what your brain want your heart to say. I hope I make sence writing it.

Anything you know that helps in making decisions then please comment on this post.